Perhaps women are cursed to care more than men if someone is willing to commit or not. Who knows? But, it seems men aren’t as concerned with this question as much as women tend to be. Nonetheless, here are at least five signs he won’t commit to help a women avoid heartache sooner than later.
His Attention is Divided
This could mean that he is still in love with his ex or that there is someone else he is interested in also. Either way, if he was really into you and willing to commit, he would make it known. Watch for signs where he is not available…a lot. At first he responded swiftly via text or phone, but now there are delayed responses.
When He Tells You Believe Him
When a man tells you that he is not looking for a serious relationship, believe him. Avoid the urge to convince him that you are the one. Take the obvious hint and keep it moving.
His Financial Status is More Important
When he has been hit with the financial loss that divorce can bring, he may be leery about jumping back into a committed relationship with someone who can’t take care of herself. If he thinks he is the next “sugar daddy” he is most likely going to hit and run if he can.
It’s All About the Chase for Him
This guy is all about the romance that happens with a new relationship. He is not interested in the time where the fairy dust starts to settle. Inquire about his past relationships to get a good idea if he has ever committed to someone. If the answer is no or not really, then put on your tennis shoes and run.
It’s All About Sex for Him
The physical attraction is intoxicating for you both. But for him that’s all it is. He was never in it for the commitment. You can tell this by how many times he takes you out on a real date. And, how often do you get together and sex doesn’t happen is another good sign that he isn’t willing to commit to you.
When you are the one, he will make it known. Women know this deep down, but for some reason, let their gut feeling escape them until it is too late. Look for the signs and most importantly take heed.